"Let my mom dance." This song, which has settled in my brain, I have been singing all day today. I did not hear it on the radio or on TV. I heard at midnight yesterday’s birthday event of our neighbor. Now, I will tell you all from the beginning.

At night I slept in the usual time. But how long has passed between, I did not know, I woke up from a loud singing. I looked at the clock on the wall: midnight 12:00 am. I went out of bed and put on clothe, after then I went out on the balcony. In the courtyard of our multi-storey apartment, a loud song sounded, near twenty people danced, someone applauded them in the microphone.

One after another, each apartment’s lamp is on. Even babies were crying.  Someone was swearing in nerves.

Finally, the song is off. Now it’s time to express blessings with a microphone. I understand from the congratulations was for a 60-year-old woman’ birthday who lives in a multi-storey apartment. Their children organized this celebration in order to surprise the mother.

Finally, the old man shouted out loud in a bad-manner: "Isn’t it enough celebrating? There are elderly, young children. At midnight you disturbed them all! Celebrate your birthday inside your home! Gather up your “concert!”

Eventually, singing and celebrating is off. Like the old man said “concert” is over. I thought, what's the use of this show, which terrible memories for owners of birthdays and spoils the mood of those around them?  

These kinds of events are observed not only on birthdays, but also at weddings. In the midnight after the wedding ending, when groom brings the bride to his house, cars sound a loud alarm, fireworks fired, loud song, and the groom's friends dancing and laughing. Such parties sometimes turn into fights. So who benefits from all this? Will the bride and groom be glad with this? Or does it mean that the wedding will be memorable?

Dear friends, let each of us ask ourselves these questions. I think most of us will have a similar answer. None of us has the right to spoil the mood of those around us in the midnight to make someone happy, to celebrate family holidays. After all, let our joy not bring disappointment to others!

Azizbek RAMAZONOV,

Magister of Journalism and mass communication
university of Uzbekistan